Do you realize how hard it is for your soulmate to find you until you make peace with this piece of you?  I realize that trust has many requirements: you must trust that you are enough, or not too much; you have to trust the timing of the Universe; you have to be able to trust that the lessons and obstacles put on your path have value; you have to be able to trust that there are trustworthy men; you have to be able to trust yourself to choose a good man, and so much more. 

Consider the power of chemistry. Your body comes alive, your energy perks up, your eyes light up. You hopes and dreams are called back out of the dusty basement. His eyes light up, he thinks, “Wow, she is amazing. I want to see her again.”

If there was a roadmap to love, would you open it?

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I can only describe it this way, it was as if their souls had abandoned them, or maybe they had abandoned their souls.